everyone wants to feel wanted.  
it's a selfish thing because "ourselves" are important. 
so, love the ones you love and remind them that you want them!
i want to strive to let my ones know that they are missed
that "i wish you were here"
or 
"i'm so glad we are sharing this moment"
love is so wonderful, feels so good, 
and it's free to dish out in generous portions. 
love is better than the most fragrant candle, 
more smooth than the silkiest lotion, 
and more comforting than the most bubbling hot tub.
it takes us back to the meaning of life. 
loving others and ourselves.